pretty wings.

every guy swears he will never walk his ass into the corner store and buy a box of tampons for his girl. every girl swears she will never let a dude come before edward cullen. or guys swear the girl that will make him even come close to settling down doesnt exist. girls swear there isnt a man out there ready for the love she has to offer.

what i mean to say is everyone has their limits. they draw their imaginary lines. they vow to never cross invisible borders. then they hide behind the single thought of "if that person really loves me, then they won't expect me to change."

there are many angles that this can be approached. having someone tell you that you need to change is one thing. wanting to change without being asked and knowing that it will benefit your relationship is another.

once you realize buying tampons for your woman is like buying her food (because, yes, she needs BOTH) then you are on the right path towards any future you hoped to have.
once you realize edward cullen is a fantasy and your man loves you with all of his being, the same way edward loves bella with all of his being... (yes, i know, its hard ladies) but its worth enjoying happiness and receiving love.

there are people out there that will make you second guess your mentality when it comes to being cynical and jaded about love...
even though the latest fad is to be an asshole... be a jerk.. to hate on love.. to resent happiness... let me tell you that the trend for seasons to come is happiness. because people are over being jaded. people are tired of hiding behind their past pain. people are fed up with replaying the memories of how much "it" hurt. its tiring.. and most of all, its getting old.

because you can't fuck forever. eventually you want to make love. and you can't fuck around forever. do you really still see yourself 80 and being the "playa" at the convalescent home? or the "heart throb" at bingo night?

c'mon lets get some real. people hide behind the hurt because they are scared. i'm scared to fly, but let me tell you, i see hawaii at least once a year. i'm scared of the deep blue, but my ass has been in the pacific ocean and the mediterranean sea... because knowing what it's like is worth more than holding on to the fear.

take yourself out of the box you put yourself in. and live with no boundaries. erase those lines you've drawn. and have more faith in yourself. because sometimes, it's not about making the smart decision. most times, it's about following your heart.